3 Tips on Body Language to Attract Women

They say that the vast majority of what you communicate is in your body language and not in your words. I know from personal experience that this is true. It really doesn’t matter so much what you say as how you say it and how you hold yourself when you’re talking to a woman. Here is a little lesson on body language to attract women. There are three basic things to keep in mind when it comes to your body language.

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First, you want to remember to keep your body relaxed and open. Don’t fold your arms across your chest and don’t come across as stressed and uptight. Women don’t think this is attractive, and even if a woman is attracted to you it will make you look like you don’t want to talk to anyone. Having a relaxed and open body language will make you look like an alpha male that completely relaxed and comfortable in any situation.

How do you get a relaxed and open body language to attract women? Start by noticing your body. I know a lot of guys that think too much with their head and they are very disconnected from their body. Close your eyes and take in a deep breath. Can you feel any areas of your body that are tense? Commonly, a lot of guys hold tension in their shoulders or stomach. As you notice this, just relax those areas. Over time, if you watch your body, you can get in the habit of relaxing it and you’ll naturally adopt an open and relaxed body language to attract women.

Second, smile! Just like with your overall body language, no woman is going to want to talk to or open up to a guy that is way too serious. This is especially true if you’re at a bar or club and you’re meeting women for the first time. Smile, and you’ll look much more easy-going and approachable.

Now, don’t have a big, stupid-looking smile on your face. That will just make you look creepy and you’ll scare women away. Instead just have a relaxed, content grin like you’re having a really good day. This will make you look much more attractive to women and make your voice sound better when you’re talking to women.

Third, mirror her body language to attract women. If you notice that a woman is crossing her legs or resting her cheek on her hand while she’s talking to you, try doing the same. This does an almost magical thing. It creates a feeling that the two of you are on the same wave-length. It will help the two of you feel more comfortable around each other and the woman will open up more to you.

When a lot of guys here this, they worry that the woman will notice what you’re doing and think you’re being creepy. This usually never happens, but the key to this is to do it subtly. Body language mirroring works by sending unconscious messages that her rational mind cannot pick up on. There’s really very little chance that you’ll get “caught” unless you’re being way too obvious about it.

So these are my tips on body language to attract women. The more natural you can be with these the better. If you can find a way to naturally put yourself in a relaxed and happy mood, all of this stuff will just flow from you automatically. Try listening to some of your favorite music before you go out, or joke around with a really good friend. The more natural and the less forced your body language is, the better off you’ll be.

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