How to Get a Date and Start a “Hot Streak”

Okay so maybe it’s that dry spot between your legs or maybe all your friends seem to be hooking up and wondering why you aren’t, but you want to know how to get a date.  Here are a few things you can do to start getting dates quickly.

First of all, don’t be afraid to ask for help.  Ask your friends if they might know any single girls that you could date.  I know it can sometimes be embarrassing to ask for help in the romance department, but seriously, this is an easy way to get a date.  Don’t make a big deal about it.  Just treat it like any other ordinary thing–you don’t want your friends thinking that you’re desperate.  Your friend will do all the heavy lifting for you telling her how great you are.

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Other than that, you really just need to start getting out there and meeting women.  Other pages on this website will show you how to meet women, how to talk to women, and how to get a girl’s number.  I suggest you read those if you really want to know how to get a date.

Either way, at some point you should have a prospective date or two.  All you have to do is call her up and set up the date.

Before you call her, you should have some kind of idea about what you want to do.  If you’ve never met her before, I suggest a coffee date.  It doesn’t seem like a big commitment like a movie or dinner at a fancy restaurant.  Plus it gives the two of you a chance to talk and get to know each other.  But whatever you decide to do, make sure that you have a plan.  It is your responsibility as the man to have some kind of plan.  Nothing is a bigger turn off than not having a plan for the first date.

Call from a quiet place without a whole bunch of loud background noise.  Also call sometime around seven or eight o’clock.  Most people are home from work at this time.

Try to sound upbeat (hint: smile when you talk).  You don’t want to spend hours on the phone.  I know it might feel good, but seriously you want to meet this girl.  It will be much much better in person.  Try to limit your phone conversations initially to about twenty minutes.  This way you don’t run out of things to talk about before the date even begins.

Now, how to get a date and seal the deal… End the call by saying something like, “Hey I’ve gotta go organize my sock drawer now, but you seem like a really fun person.  Let’s get together for coffee and talk some more.  When are you free this week?”  After you agree on a time and place to meet, say something like, “Okay, great.  I’ll see you on Thursday at 7:00 at Victrolla Coffee, then.”  By repeating the time and place again, you cement the location and time into both of your memories so it is harder for either of you to forget.

That’s how to get a date.  If you’re nervous, sometimes it helps to just pretend that it’s no big deal.  Remember that you need to get to know her first, so you really have no need to be too nervous yet.  I mean, you don’t even know what her personality is like yet.  So there’s really nothing to be nervous about.

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