3 Critical First Date Tips for Men
Alright, you got the date! Way to go! Here are a few first date tips that will help you make sure it goes well.
First of all, the first date is important because it gives you a chance to get to know the girl better. It shouldn’t be something distracting like a concert or a movie. These really don’t give you much chance to talk to the girl at all. I like very boring first dates. Going out for coffee is ideal because it’s cheap and not very committal like going out for dinner. If you go out for coffee and the girl is really rude or something, it’s no big deal to just get up and leave.
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The goal of the first date is to just talk. If you don’t listen to any other first date tips I have here, listen to this one. I know she’s hot and all, but do you really know her that well? Just simply have a fun and enjoyable conversation. Get to know her. Don’t memorize any of those cheesy “date questions.” They come across as being canned and cliche. Just ask her questions about herself. Things like “How is your day going?” or “What do you do for work?” After that, follow up with things like “How does that make you feel?” or “What was that like?” Basically, if you actually care about the answer, it’s fair game to ask the question.
I know I’m not going to gain a lot of manliness points by saying this, but I always get nervous and excited before a first date. What could be more exciting than getting to know an attractive woman and finding out if the two of you are compatible? It’s like unwrapping a present on Christmas morning! Seriously, though, don’t stress it. First dates are pretty harmless and you don’t really need to be worried about humiliating yourself.
Another one of my first date tips. Don’t expect a whole lot from a first date. The goal is just to see if she’s the kind of girl that you actually want to date again or even have a relationship with. Don’t go in thinking that she’s going to give you a blow job in your car or that you’re gonna nail her in the bathroom stall. Most girls will have some kind of arbitrary rule about not putting out or even kissing on the first date. Like I said above, your goal is just to get to know her.
At the end of the date, say good bye by giving her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. This is one of my favorite first date tips. It comes across as very classy and European. Plus it let’s her know that you’re a quality guy…a gentleman who is not just trying to “get some” as fast as possible.
Lastly, don’t forget to have fun. Make the girl laugh. She’s probably nervous about the date too. Laughing will make you both feel more comfortable. Just pull stuff out of your ass and undersell yourself. This comes across as not only funny, but also as confidence. Tell her something so obviously stupid that she knows you’re joking like, “My mom dropped me off. She’s parked around the corner waiting for me. I don’t want to keep her waiting too long, so I’d better get going.”
Follow these first date tips and you should have a good first date. Remember, you’re screening her to see if you want to see her again. Don’t stress it.
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