How to Get a Girl to Go Out with You

It doesn’t matter if she’s that one special girl in your class, or some stunning woman that you see from across a crowded club. She’s caught your eye and you just can’t get her out of your head. Here is how to get a girl to go out with you.

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How to Get a Girl to Go Out with You – Get Her to Notice You

Maybe you’re painfully shy like I was, or maybe you’re just like every other guy out there. The thing is, if you want her to go out with you she needs to notice you. Answer the following question: What about you is going to stand out to her? Girls don’t want to date “one of the guys,” they want to date a special guy.

Talk to the girl and make sure that she sees you as someone unique. Maybe you have an interesting wardrobe and you’re not just another guy wearing white sneakers, polo shirts, and a baseball cap. Maybe you have a lot of cool experiences and you can regale her with your stories from Thailand while all the other guys bore her to death talking about their fantasy football team. Or maybe your personality is so memorable that she just can’t get you out of her mind.

The point is that you need to stand out. Chances are if you want to date her, there are plenty of other guys that want to as well. If you want her to say “yes” when you ask her out, give her a damn good reason.

How to Get a Girl to Go Out with You – Have a Plan

Nothing is a bigger let down to a girl than to have a guy pick her up for a date and ask her “So, what do you want to do?”

Girls like guys that have some initiative. In a dance, the male leads and the female follows. Dating is the same way. Be a man and take the lead. Plan a date before you ask her out.

Ideally, the date should be something tailored to something unique and special that you know about her, but even a boring date is better than no plan at all. Ask yourself what you know about her. If you know she loves the ocean, take her on a walk along the beach. If she’s into art, take her to the museum–or better yet, one of those monthly “artwalk” things that they have in most cities.

How to Get a Girl to Go Out with You – Don’t Put Her on the Spot

Interrupting her when she’s with her friends or running up to her and telling her that she is beautiful (like all the other guys–see point 1 above) and asking her out is putting her on the spot. This will make her feel uncomfortable and she’ll be more likely to say “no.”

Instead, look for natural and easy ways to talk to her. Ask her about a book that she’s carrying or causally ask her about some kind of interesting even that happened recently. These are the best ways to start a conversation with a girl because they are completely natural and don’t seem awkward or forced.

Then just ask her out in a relaxed way. Something like “Hey, I remember you said you like sushi once. Let’s go check out this new sushi place I heard about downtown.”

This is how to get a girl to go out with you. If she still says “no” don’t get bent out of shape. Girls have hundreds of reasons for turning down a guy. Most of which have nothing to do with you. Maybe she’s busy that day or maybe she’s in a bad mood. Try again later and see if she changed her mind. The key is to take rejection lightly and move forward as if it was an enjoyable game (which it is). Assume that she’s just playing “hard to get” and keep flirting your way into her heart until she finally agrees.

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