How to Let a Girl Know You Like Her

Want to know how to let a girl know you like her? Don’t try to explain it to her – A lot of guys go to the trouble of memorizing some kind of speech like you’d see in a romantic comedy movie thinking that this is how to let a girl know you like her. Then they go and ask the girl out for coffee or something and then spill their guts. Of course, they’re usually so nervous as they fidget around waiting for the right moment that their proclamation of love falls flat on its face.

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Look, man, you don’t need to do it this way. This is wrong for two reasons.

First, you are operating under the assumption that you need to justify liking her. This is just another subtle way of trying to impress her or prove yourself to her. This is really not attractive and it’s not the mindset you want to be living your life by. You don’t need to justify liking a girl. You just like her.

Second, you’re too busy thinking of what you’re going to say or waiting for all the stars to align and give you the perfect opportunity to say it, that you’re not actually there with the woman. You’re off somewhere in your mind. Women don’t like this, and this kind of stuff kills attraction and emotional connection. Try to do the exact opposite. Be 100% there with her.

I know this seems like of new-agey and all but this is real stuff. If you need help with this, just practice focusing on your body. Can you feel your feet on the floor? Can you feel your butt resting on the chair you’re sitting on? Can you feel that feeling in your chest when you’re with the girl? Can you start to understand how this is a much better place to be when you’re relating with a woman or letting her know that you like her?

I hope you’re starting to get this.

Okay, so what exactly can you do to clue her in? Here is how to let a girl know you like her the right way.

The pickup artists (PUA’s) have a term called SOI (or statement of intent). This is basically just a term that means you’re letting the girl know that you think she’s hot. The term SOI was invented by Wayne “Juggler” Elise and the basic way that you do an SOI is like this:

Her: I have to go to my dance rehearsal tonight. I’m really getting excited about my performance this weekend.

You: Wow! You’re really committed to dancing and doing the best you can at it. I like that, that’s really sexy.

The key word here is “sexy.” By using this word, you’ll be telling her that you like her as a woman, not as a friend. This is very subtle, but it lets her know that it’s okay to take things to a physical level and start flirting. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Just say it playfully and continue on with the conversation. That’s how to let a girl know you like her casually. Trust me. She gets it.

Another tip on how to let a girl know you like her is to be straightforward and genuine about it.

For example, maybe you’re hanging out with her and one of those silences falls over the two of you. You can then just look her straight in the eye and tell her something like, “I really want to kiss you right now.” And then kiss her. This can be a little risky, but it’s really romantic.

This approach is different from the nervous jittery method above because first, it is genuine and authentic not something you memorize (I hope you’re not writing this down right now hoping to robotically try this out this weekend–it won’t work if you do it that way). Secondly, it was masculine. You’re not asking to kiss her. You’re telling her that you want to kiss her. There is a difference. You are owning your desires. Also, it shows follow-through when you go in for the kiss. This shows that you act on your desires and you do things to get what you want in life. Women find this attractive.

So, that is how to let a girl know you like her. The important point is to not make it into some big deal. Treat it as something completely natural (which it is), and she will likely follow suit and enjoy the experience with you.

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