How to Approach Girls (Even If You’re a Coward)

One of the biggest stumbling blocks that guys face when they are trying to get better with women is learning how to approach girls. This is not an easy task. You need to work on overcoming approach anxiety, and work up your overall confidence. Then you have to actually figure out where you can meet girls and what you’re going to say to her.

Let’s dissect this problem one bit at a time.

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How to Approach Girls – Mustering Up the Courage

I won’t lie to you. Going up and talking to girls isn’t easy for most guys. If you don’t have a problem with it, then consider yourself extremely lucky. In fact this is the single biggest hurdle I’ve seen that holds so many guys back from becoming unbelievably successful with women.

If you don’t feel confident going up and talking to women, ask yourself why not? Do you not think you’re attractive? Do you think you’re not a good conversationalist? Find out specifically what is holding you back and work to improve that.

If you don’t feel attractive, start working out to lose weight, or put some attention to dressing better. If you not good at talking to people, practice making small talk with strangers (they don’t even have to be girls–any practice you can get helps).

How to Approach Girls – Where to Find Them

A lot of guys seem to be at a loss for where to find girls. I’m not really sure why this is, since 50% of all the people on the face of the earth are women. Really, women are everywhere. They need to buy groceries, go out for lunch, have a drink after work, and everything else that us guys have to do.

What these guys are really wanting to know is where to find girls that are easy to approach. The answer this is to go anywhere that you can have something in common with everyone else. Having something in common makes approaching much easier.

Examples of places you can go where you shares something in common with everyone else might be a club or hobby group, church, a class at school, an amateur sports team where people play for fun, or a music show or concert. These sorts of things create instant conversation topics (For example, “So, how long have you been coming here?”).

How to Approach Girls – Actually Doing It

Okay, so you’re feeling ready. You see her from across the room. Now what?

You need to think of something to say. Look for a reason to approach her. Is there anything interesting that she’s doing, that she’s wearing, or anything at all about the environment you could talk about?

If not, then you’re probably not thinking hard enough. But if for some reason, there actually is no good topic to talk about, go memorize some PUA openers and try them out.

If you’re feeling good and know what to say, there there really is no reason not to approach a girl and strike up a conversation. Get to know her and find out if she’s the kind of girl you want to get to know better. If she is ask her out and get her phone number.

This is how to approach girls. It really isn’t very hard once you’ve done it a few times and get used to pushing through any of that nasty approach anxiety. In fact, it actually becomes exciting! What could be more thrilling than getting to know someone new? Someone that might just end up being your next girlfriend!

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