How to Start a Conversation with a Girl

A lot of guys out there are really stressing about how to start a conversation with a girl. I can understand why. It’s that critical first moment when you go from being complete strangers to perhaps something more. If you don’t present yourself in the right way, then it will be a lot of work to come back from that. You know what they say, you can only make a first impression once.

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There are lots of canned “routines” out there. You can make up some bullshit story about your roommate’s jealous girlfriend or creep her out by telling her to imagine a cube in the desert. There’s lots of crap out there. You really don’t need this stuff. In fact it will only hurt you later because it’s all lies and you’ll have to keep lying to the girl so that she doesn’t find out about the first lie. It’s a lot of work and it’s quite unnecessary in the first place.

If you want to know how to start a conversation with a girl, the best way is to just be direct. Look for something about her or the environment that would give you a good reason to talk to her. Is she carrying a book? Ask her about it! Does she have one of those super-tiny net-books? Ask her about that. Did someone just get kicked out of the bar? Ask her if she saw it. This stuff really isn’t that hard.

But what if there’s absolutely nothing notable about the situation? Can you tell me how to start a conversation with a girl now, Brian?

If there’s absolutely nothing about the situation worth bringing up, you probably aren’t trying hard enough. But let’s just say you’re right. Tou could always try “How’s it going?” or “What’s up?” These usually don’t go very far. Personally, I’ve had great results by asking girls “How’s your day going?” I don’t know why, but for some reason, they share a whole lot more about themselves when you ask them this question specifically.

If she gives you some run of the mill answer like, “fine, thanks,” ask her if she’s really doing fine or if she just said that on autopilot. A lot of times that will open things up for a deeper conversation too.

From there, you just go on to talk about other things. Let the conversation flow naturally and don’t use a bunch of canned lines that sound like you memorized them. Just ask her questions like why her friends decided to go out tonight, or where she’s from, or what sort of art or craft she does as a hobby (believe it or not nearly all girls have some kind of art or craft related hobby). Ask follow up questions, and just keep things flowing.

So, that’s really all there is on how to start a conversation with a girl. It’s really easy. In fact, you shouldn’t even think about it too much because the more you think about it the more you’ll build it up in your mind as a “big deal.”

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