What to Say to a Girl to Develop a Strong Connection
So now that you know how to talk to women, let’s get a bit more specific and go into what to say to a girl to keep things going well.
On top of that, there are a few fun things that you can do make your conversations more fun. Note: Do these AFTER taking a moment to focus on her as a human being.
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You can be a bit challenging. You don’t want to make things too easy for her. Make her do a little work. Sometimes girls will throw tests at you. This is a great time to test her back. When a girl test a guy, most guys will either puff themselves up and try to act all stupid and manly; other guys will fold and try to please her, afraid of upsetting her. Both of these are what you don’t want to do. You’re just going to end up blowing yourself out.
If you want to know what to say to a girl in these sorts of situations, there are really two things you can do. If she asks you a question about your age or how many girls you’ve been with, you can answer either:
One, you can challenge her test and say something like, “Oh, why do you want to know?” Don’t say this in a cocky-ass hole tone, say it from a place of genuine curiosity. This gets to the bottom of whatever weird motive she has for testing you in the first place.
If you missed that, you’re basically answering questions with questions. Don’t do this too much though or else it will seem like you’re being shady and that you have something to hide.
Secondly, you can just make up something funny by telling her something that’s obviously not true. Preferably something lame. The lamer the better. This just shows how confident you are in yourself that you’re not afraid to cast a negative light on yourself. Most insecure guys would never joke around with a girl about being a virgin or having a small dick. If you do this (and it’s clear that you’re just joking around), it will come off as really smooth and confident. If you ever find yourself wondering what to say to a girl, you can’t go wrong with something funny.
Also, spice up your conversations with a little flirting. If you don’t let her know you’re into her, you run the risk of just being seen as a friend… not something you want. Letting her know you’re into her isn’t that hard. Don’t be a chump and plans some kind of speech about how the two of you are made for each other. That’s no good. Just wait for her to say something that genuinely impresses you. Then say something like, “Stop talking about your artwork like that, it’s turning me on way too much,” or “I think it’s really sexy that you take school so seriously.”
Don’t worry about it making too much sense. It can be a little silly. In fact it’s often more fun if it is silly.
So, I hope this has helped you get a better understanding of what to say to a girl to get the best results. Again, this isn’t rocket science. Don’t take things so seriously. Just have fun and be a cool, humorous, flirty guy and everything will go well.
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