How to Turn a Girl On

One important thing to keep in mind is that men and women are very different, especially when it comes to what turns us on. Here are a few tips on how to turn a girl on.

I once heard an analogy that when it comes to sexual desire, a man is like a match. We’re quick to spark a flame, but we burn out quickly. Girls on the other hand, are more like building a fire. It can take a while for the flames to build up, but once they’re there, they rage strong and for quite a long time.

Turn a Girl On with Your Mere Presence

It takes a little time to turn a girl on. You can’t just flip a switch like you can with us guys. It’s a long ordeal that you will have to string out over a period of time to stoke that fire, so to speak. And to do this you’re going to be targeting her senses and her imagination.

Look for opportunities to touch her. I don’t mean creepy touching. Just a light touch on the shoulder or something when you’re making a point or complimenting her on something. Don’t bring attention to the act that you’re touching her. That will just seem weird and creepy. If the two of you just met, she’ll just think it’s the way you are and will likely be fine with that. Knowing how to touch a girl is important in knowing how to turn a girl on.

Whisper something into her ear. Ears are one of the erogenous zones on a girl’s body. Most women get turned on when a guy whispers in her ear. Look for an excuse to tell her a secret. Pretend like you have something really important to tell her, then lean in and whisper something funny into her ear. Don’t do this until you’re already having a good conversation or else it will come off as weird.

You also want to start stimulating her imagination. Is is really key in how to turn a girl on. Get her thinking about the two of you together, but do it discretely. When she says something that that you agree with or that you two have in common, instead of saying something like “me too!” say something more like, “That’s so cool. You’re my new girlfriend now.” Or “Be careful. If you keep talking like that, I might fall in love with you.” These of course should be said jokingly or else you run the risk of seeming possessive or clingy.

A girl needs to feel comfortable with you before she starts to feel turned on. Yes, women do like unpredictable guys, but there is a difference between “good unpredictable” and “bad unpredictable.” “Good unpredictable” is when she doesn’t know where you’re taking her on a date until you get there. “Bad unpredictable” is when she’s not sure if you’re a rapist or have some kind of mental personality disorder. That is definitely not how to turn a girl on. Get the point? Be a fun and relaxed guy and you’ll have no problems ensuring that she feels comfortable.

Once a girl feels comfortable, you can start taking the lead with her. Women like guys that take the lead. It shows initiative and confidence. Taking the lead can be pretty easy. Instead of saying something like, “Do you want to go get a hamburger?” say, “Let’s go get a hamburger.” Doing small things like this is great practice at building your leading muscles and soon you’ll find that you just naturally start doing and saying more bold things like, “Come with me, I want to take you home.”

So these are a few tips on how to turn a girl on. Get comfortable doing these and you’ll find that your interactions with women will quickly become a lot more interesting…

Turn a Girl On with Your Mere Presence

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