3 Easy Ways to Make Girls Like You
A lot of guys I talk to want to know how to make girls like you. I mean, what guy in his right mind wouldn’t want a bunch of hot girls fighting over him? Heck, it what drove me learn everything I know about how to get good with women, and it’s what got me in a relationship with my perfect girl (we’ve been together for almost 2 years).
So what’s a guy to do? Maybe you’re not the best looking guy out there (I’m certainly no GQ model, myself), is there anything you can do?
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Well, you’re in luck. Girls are attracted to guys based more on their personality than on how they look. So average guys or even below-average looking guys like yours truly have got a shot to get really good with women.
You can’t really control your genetics, but here is what you can control and improve to make girls like you:
Make girls like you by building your self-confidence
Girls like confident men. They like confident men A LOT. So if you can start working on improving your confidence, you’ve probably won half the battle. Confidence is actually pretty easy to develop. All you really need to do is get in the habit of doing things despite the fact that you might be afraid to do them. That’s all confidence really is.
Start with small things and work your way up to bigger things. As you learn that you can easily handle whatever life throws at you, you’ll increase your self-confidence a little bit at a time.
Make girls like you by getting some skills
It turns out Napoleon Dynamite was right when he said “Girls only want boyfriends with skills.” (however, you can probably ignore the part about nunchuck, bow hunting, and computer hacking skills – those probably won’t get you very far with girls) You need to start to develop some good skill to attract women. Preferably these skills should be in things that impress women.
Consider learning how to cook, learning salsa dancing, speaking Italian, playing the guitar, or artistic skills. Girls really like guys that know how to do these kinds of things. They make you stand out from all the other guys out there, and trust me women like guys that stand out from all the ordinary, boring guys they see every day.
Make girls like you by flirting with them
Learning how to flirt with a girl is a great way to get them to like you. Flirt with as many girls as you can so you get lots of practice and lots of girls liking you.
Remember that flirting is a very delicate art. It only counts as flirting if it is 1.) not overly serious, and 2.) makes her feel better about herself.
A lot of guys get this wrong and think that flirting is the same as hollering at a girl and telling her that she has a nice butt. Don’t do this. It fails both requirements for flirting. 1.) chances are that without getting to know her first, she’s not going to know whether or not you’re being serious, and 2.) it doesn’t make her feel good about herself, it makes her feel like an object. Guys that do this are just slimy and not good at flirting at all.
Keep these three things in mind and you’ll make girls like you everywhere you go before you know it. It really all does boil down to your personality. Just try your best to be a happy and fun-loving guy that’s got a few things he’s good at, and you’ll do just fine with the women.
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