Overcoming Approach Anxiety and Start Meeting Women

If you can’t even get started and meet the girl, how can you ever really expect to have any degree of success with dating?  That’s why overcoming approach anxiety is so important.

A lot of people out there are debating whether or not there really is any way to get over approach anxiety.  Some say that it is just hard-wired into our genetics (after all if we went up to talk to the wrong woman, some very angry caveman could pound our face in with his club).  Other people say that there actually are ways to conquer this sticking point.

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Here are some tips that have helped guys successfully deal with this problem:

Use the 3 Second Rule for Overcoming Approach Anxiety – This is a pretty simple concept.  Basically the assumption is that the more you sit around thinking about approaching a woman, the more nervous you get (and hence the less likely you are to actually talk to her).  So instead, you don’t give that fear the time it needs to build up.  The instant you see an attractive woman, you approach her within 3 seconds.  If you commit to using the 3 second rule, you must decide to do it all the time.  No exceptions or else you’ll start looking for an out all the time.  Of course it’s okay to let it slide if you’re running late for work or for some other reason it just doesn’t make sense, but if you’re at a club, just do it!

Using the Power of Money for Overcoming Approach Anxiety – If you’re going out with a wingman, he can help you put yourself out there and meet women.  When I was getting started, just having a friend out there watching was enough to motivate me to put myself out there.  I just didn’t want to deal with the shame of embarrassing myself in front of him by not approaching.

If that’s still not enough for you, you can give your wingman $100 in cash (or something equivalent).  Every time you go up and approach a girl, he gives you $10 or $20 back.  This will really motivate you to get out there and talk to girls, if for no other reason than not going home broke.

But to be honest with you, these two solutions are just ways of dealing with the problem.  They are not solutions.  If you’re really interested in overcoming approach anxiety, you have to deal with what is at the root of it all.

I’m not a big believer that approach anxiety is hardwired into us.  I think it’s a learned response.

When you boil it all down, the really underlying problem behind approach anxiety is shame.

You see, you feel anxious about approaching that babe because on some level your ashamed to do so.  Maybe you’re not comfortable with your sexuality, or maybe you just don’t feel that you deserve to have a beautiful woman in your life.  I don’t know.  Your situation is completely unique and I can’t paint you with a broad brush.

If you need some help overcoming approach anxiety, I highly suggest that you check out the Authentic Man Program.  These guys totally dominate inner game and a lot of guys I’ve talked to that have used their methods have been able to completely eliminate approach anxiety.  Can you imagine that?  The anxiety is just gone.  It feels great!  It’s like the whole time you were trying to hit the accelerator while your other foot was slammed down hard on the brakes.  Check it out, bro!

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