PUA Routines for Building a Strong Connection with Women
Let’s talk about some PUA routines that you can use to help succeed with women. These routines are essentially just stories that on one hand make you look like a really cool guy that the girl would want to get to know better, and on the other hand, they draw the girl in and make her feel connected to you.
Of course there are played out routines like “the cube,” and “the jealous girlfriend” routine, but they’re getting a little too old for my taste. Let’s talk about some other ones:
The Present Routine – This one is fun and can give you a lot of information that you can string out into more conversation topics.
Basically, you just go up to a group of girls and tell them that your buddy has to go out of town for business unexpectedly. He’s given you $200 or whatever to buy his girlfriend a birthday present for him. Then ask the girls what you should get.
Whatever they tell you is basically just revealing information about themselves. If they say you should get her a day at the spa, then the girl loves being pampered. If she says that you should buy her some kind of expensive Prada stuff, then the girl has very expensive taste. You can use this information to tease the girls later on.
Dating for Dummies – This one is one of the funniest PUA routines I’ve ever heard of and is a great way to break the ice and get girls to relax around you.
First, go out and get any of those really bad dating books our there like Dating for Dummies or anything else with a really obvious name like that.
Then you bring it with you to a club or anywhere else you’re going to meet women and open it up to the section called “Don’t Use These Pickup Lines” (or whatever that section is called).
Then you just go up to the girl and, holding the book in front of you, just start reading some of the lines out loud. Go for the really bad ones like “Do you come here often?” or “What’s your sign, baby?”
This will get you some laughs and disarm any defenses that the girl might have. You can even naively ask her how you did and if it “worked” on her.
These are a couple of PUA routines that will help you get your foot in the door. After you get a conversation going, you want to build rapport with the girl. The best way to do this is to share a personal story about yourself. Women will naturally open up with you and start feeling a connection when you reveal personal things about yourself.
I don’t want to share any canned PUA routines for this part, because lying about who you are isn’t really my style. I’m sure you can think of some interesting stories about your life.
It’s always best to make your own PUA routines based on your own life experiences, but sometimes you just need a little help. Go out and try a few of these routines out and get some experience under your belt. Then you should probably have a few original stories of your own to turn into routines.
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