How to Turn a Friend Into a Girlfriend
It happens to the best of us sooner or later. You’ve got a crush on one of your female friends. The only problem is she has absolutely zero attraction for you and sees you as a “brother.” Ouch! What can you do to turn her from friend into girlfriend?
First of all, I want you to know that you can indeed do this. It’s probably not going to be easy, but, yes, you can do it. Surly you’ve heard stories about one of your friends that hooked up with some girl he’s known for years as a just a friend.
Discover the Secrets to Escaping the “Friend Zone”
Here are a couple tips that will really help you out:
Friend into Girlfriend Tip #1 – Become a New Man
Your friend is used to you being a certain kind of person, and for better or worse, she just isn’t attracted to this certain kind of person. If you want a shot at attracting her and turning her into your girlfriend, you need to show her a new side of you. You need to become a new man.
You see if you can show her some aspect of you that she’s never seen before, she will see in a new light and there’s a chance she can start to feel attracted to you. So maybe you start wearing some new clothes or maybe you act differently around her.
Friend into Girlfriend Tip #2 – Meet Up with Her
The next thing you want to do is meet up with her. Don’t necessarily think of this as a “date,” but your goal here is to impress her. Ask her to meet you for lunch somewhere that you’ve never been with her before. Again, this is chance to show her a new side of yourself.
If you’re normally the kind of guy that eats fast food all the time, ask her to meet you at a cafe with a nice atmosphere. Try to avoid chain stores like Starbucks. These places tend to be generic and won’t give her the impression you want. Your goal is to show her a cool and trendy place that’s off the beaten path.
Friend into Girlfriend Tip #3 – Be Direct with Her
When you meet her. Casually chat with her and have fun. But after a bit, be honest with her and tell her that you think she’s attractive. Tell her that you’ve been thinking about it for awhile and you would like to try being more than friends. Then ask her out on a date. Don’t make a big deal out of it and make sure she knows it’s just one date and not necessarily a serious relationship. This won’t seem like as big of a commitment and she is more likely to say “yes.”
This is how to turn a girl from your friend into girlfriend. Of course you should be careful with this. There is a chance that she’ll say “no.” If she does turn you down when you ask her out, it is possible that things may become awkward between you two and you may lose her friendship. Make sure that this is a risk you are willing to take.