What Women Find Attractive in Men

So you want to know what women find attractive in a man? A lot of people out there will tell you that women only like guys that are rich, jerks, men in uniform, tall, good-looking, famous, young, or any combination of these qualities.

In reality, what women find attractive is not these shallow traits. Women may THINK that they need a guy to have these qualities, but really it’s not the qualities that they find attractive, it’s what these qualities represent.

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This should be great news for you if, like me, you’re not a twenty-five year old, six foot six, millionaire, asshole, police officer, fashion model that’s famous.

The reason that women tend to gravitate toward these types of men is mostly because these types of guys tend to be able to offer the woman a sense of security.

That’s right. Security.

If you think about it, it makes sense. Imagine thousands of years ago in caveman times. Women wanted to ensure that their children would survive to maturity and live to reproduce. The best way to do that is to land a man that can keep her safe and provide for her.

Rich guys have lots of money that can afford things for her. Jerks will beat up anyone at the drop of a hat. Men in uniform also represent this ass-kicking quality for women. Tall guys give the impression that they can dominate other men because of their physical size. Good-looking men have good genetics. If her children have good genetics too, then they will have an easy time reproducing. Famous guys give the illusion that they are leaders and can command others. Young men represent health and strength.

So you see, what women find attractive is not these superficial traits. It’s a feeling of comfort and safety that they find attractive. Now that’s not to say that they like boring and predictable guys. That’s different. They like guys that are fun, exciting, and unpredictable on a day-to-day basis, but guys that they know can provide security and safety in the long-run.

This is why Poindexter is not attractive to women. He’s just too boring and predictable. Maybe the software company he works at is going public and his stock options will make him very rich, but most women will find him about as exciting as a warm bowl of milk if he just does the same things every day.

This is also why party boys aren’t really that successful with women either. They might get a few girls initially due to their fun personality. But the women will probably soon leave them once they figure out that they can’t hold a job and bring in any money (security).

When women say that they want a “real man” what they mean is that they want a guy that can provide security for them (physical and emotional), but also a guy that is confident and comfortable enough with himself to take things lightly and have fun from time to time. That’s what women find attractive.

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