How to Get a Girl to Notice You

Do you want to know how to get a girl to notice you? It’s pretty much impossible to get a girl to date you without her first noticing you. I mean, do you really expect her to say “yes” when you ask her out if you’re just some random guy she’s never even noticed before in her life?

Here are some tips on how to get a girl to notice you that will make her eager to meet you and wanting to spend more time with you.

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How to Get a Girl to Notice You – Stand Out from the Crowd

Girls don’t just want “one of the guys.” They want a special guy that stands out. If you just spend your time watching football, dressing like every other guy out there, and don’t ever show her your unique personality, why should she notice you at all?

The pickup artists (PUA’s) developed a term called “peacocking” to describe the interesting clothes they would wear when going out to meet women. Some of the PUA’s like Mystery took this a little overboard, in my opinion, resorting to wearing platform shoes, fuzzy hats, and temporary tattoos. If you want to do this, that’s great, but it’s not necessary.

Instead realize that peacocking is just making sure that you wear unique clothing that gives a girl an easy way to remember you or even approach you if she’s interested. Peacocking keeps you from getting lost in the sea of boring guys that wear baseball caps, polo shirts, and white sneakers.

If Mystery’s style isn’t much to your taste, a more “normal” example of peacocking might include wearing a funny T-Shirt (like the cool ones they have at Threadless) or reading an interesting book that pretty much begs any woman nearby to ask you about it (like the Book of Secrets).

How to Get a Girl to Notice You – The Cool Factor

Next, it also helps if you have some interesting experiences to share with the girl. Again, the PUA’s have a term for this called a DHV (Demonstrate High Value). These are just little stories that you can tell a girl to impress her or make you seem like a cool person.

Maybe you’ve studied for a semester in Italy. Maybe you are an artist in your spare time. Or maybe you play the guitar. Like I said before, if you want a girl to notice you you have to stand out from the rest of the guys. A girl isn’t going to notice you if you just go to work, come home, drink a beer while watching TV, and go to bed.

This is why guys like James Bond are so attractive to women. To put it simply, they’re cool! If you think you’re lacking in the “cool department” pick up some cool hobbies. Learn how to cook, master karate, or become a stand up comedian. You don’t need to be a super-bad-ass spy like James Bond to get girls, but it helps if you’ve got some skills that every other guy doesn’t have.

That’s how to get a girl to notice you. You make yourself an interesting person. Dress in a way that shows off your personality and makes you stick out. Also act in a way that makes you stick out. Remember, women don’t want average, so the more you can do to make yourself above average, the better your chances are at getting a girl to notice you.

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